Reference no: EM133930973
Assignment:
1. Explain how silence can be used effectively in counselling.
2. Paraphrase each of the following client statements:
· At a party the other night, I finally met someone with whom I can carry on an intelligent conversation. He seemed interested too, but he didn't ask for my phone number.
· It's a dilemma! I don't know whether to finish the school year or drop out and get a handle on some of my debts.
· My supervisor wants to see me today. I know she wants to talk to me because I've been late for work over the last few weeks.
· First my car broke down, then the fridge. Now it's the plumbing. I should marry someone who is good at fixing things.
· I think that with AIDS and all the other diseases you can catch, we should all take precautions. You never know who might be infected.
· Well, to put it bluntly, I think my partner has a lover. But I could forgive that. I just want our relationship to be the way it was when we first met.
· I've tried everything. I have a great résumé. I've called everyone I know. I look for a job five to six hours a day. Still, I can't find work.
· Lately, I've been thinking that there has to be more to life than work and play. I'm not even sure if I believe in God, but I need to find some meaning for my life.
· I just lost it. My anger built up and I hit her. She got so upset that she packed up and left with the kids. I've never done anything like that in my whole life. I realize that I didn't solve anything by losing my temper. Now I may have ruined my marriage and turned my kids against me.
· I guess I'm going to have to find some way of dealing with my drinking problem. The other day I was so sick from drinking that I couldn't even get out of bed. I just can't let booze continue to jeopardize my work and my family.
a) What patterns or cycles are apparent? Are there times of the day or week when you are more likely to feel particular emotions?
b) How could you have altered your emotions (e.g., to increase pleasurable feelings and decrease negative feelings)?
c) What have you learned about yourself from this exercise that will assist you in your work as a counsellor?
d) Some people suggest that if you empathize with people who have committed horrible offences such as crimes against children that you condone their behaviour. How might you respond to these assertions?
Recall the 10 families of emotions:
· anger,
· fear,
· strength,
· weakness,
· joy,
· sadness,
· confusion,
· shame,
· surprise, and
· love.
a. What are the emotions that you have more difficulty expressing? Are there feelings you would never express?
b. How do your ability and willingness to share emotions vary depending on the person you are with?