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Question: I have 3 different assessments to complete and then write 1 page reflection paper on each assessment.
Assessment 1: Book: The Five Flirting Styles (By Jeffrey A. Hall)
First, complete the assessment and then write 1 page essay reflecting on your results.
Assessment 2: sexual assertiveness. First, complete the assessment and then write 1 page essay reflecting on your results.
For the following questions, think about your current or most recent sexual partner and given suggestions using given points on the questions:
Never
Rarely
Some of the Time
Most of the Time
All of the Time
1. I feel uncomfortable talking during sex.
2. I feel that I am shy when it comes to sex.
3. I approach my partner for sex when I desire it.
4. I think I am open with my partner about my sexual needs.
5. I enjoy sharing my sexual fantasies with my partner.
6. I feel uncomfortable talking to my friends about sex.
7. I communicate my sexual desires to my partner.
8. It is difficult for me to touch myself during sex.
9. It is hard for me to say no even when I do not want sex.
10. I am reluctant to describe myself as a sexual person.
11. I feel uncomfortable telling my partner what feels good.
12. I speak up for my sexual feelings.
13. I am reluctant to insist that my partner satisfy me.
14. I find myself having sex when I do not really want it.
15. When a sexual technique does not feel good, I tell my partner.
16. I feel comfortable giving sexual praise to my partner.
17. It is easy for me to discuss sex with my partner.
18. I feel comfortable in initiating sex with my partner.
19. I find myself doing sexual things with my parent that I do not like.
20. Pleasing my partner is more important than my own sexual pleasure.
21. I feel comfortable telling my partner how to touch me.
22. I enjoy masturbating myself to orgasm.
23. If something feels good in sex, I insist on doing it again
24. It is hard for me to be honest about my sexual feelings.
25. I try to avoid discussing the subject of sex.
Assessment 3: sexual self-esteem. First, complete the assessment and then write 1 page essay reflecting on your results.For the following questions, think about how you feel generally.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Neither Agree Nor Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
1. I am a good sexual partner
2. I would rate my sexual skill quite highly.
3. I am better at sex than most people.
4. I sometimes have doubts about my sexual competence.
5. I am not very confident in sexual encounters.
6. I think of myself as a very good sexual partner.
7. I would rate myself low as a sexual partner.
8. I am confident about myself as a sexual partner.
9. I am not very confident about myself as a sexual partner.
10. I sometimes doubt my sexual competence.
These are questions that might help you writing the reflection essay for each assessment:
1- Were your results surprising? Not surprising?
2- Which behaviors did you score higher in? Lower in?
3- What might this tell you about your actions in your current relationship?
4- What did you learn?